Sunday, October 12, 2014
How to survive a divorce
1- Accept that it's happening
2- Realize your not the only one hurting
3- Bury your pain
4- Only cry for others
5- But never in front of others
6- Don't let them feel the same
7- Pretend it never happened
After all your still you right
Wrong
Because your friends say you've changed
And your teachers hug you in the hallway
Because you still won't admit your not ok
7- realize you need new tactics
8- decide it's ok
9- hope everyone forgets
But they won't
Because you'll always be the kid
who broke down in the middle of class
crying because it was all too much
10- start to fear being different
11- try to fade away
12- enter middle school
13- make some crappy friends
14- make bad choices
Because you need to fill the gap somehow
And making them think your lively
makes them think your ok
15- fix yourself
16- make real friends
17- pretend divorce is a part of life
18- pretend you never made mistakes
19- pretend to be perfectly fine
20- let your mom get remarried
21- be ok with moving away
22- find out your older brother
Who might as well be god in your eyes
Isn't coming with you
23- Cry a lot
But don't let him see you cry
But let him know how much you miss him
24- try to start over
25- spend a year getting your crap together
26- accept that this is your new life
27- enter highschool
28- realize that now divorce is everyday life
29- stop taking advice from someone who obviously fails at life
In fact you probably shouldn't have read this in the first place
In fact it probably wouldn't work anyways because none of you are in 6th grade
But still
30- Stop taking my advice
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i don't know what to write. but i'm glad I clicked on your post.
ReplyDeleteSooooo relatable. Loved it and you are just wonderful
ReplyDeleteA divorce can creep up on someone so unknowingly, and that is truly what makes it so unfair. The person on the other side might've never saw it coming, and once it hits them, the frustration buries them in a deep, dark pit of questions. In any case, whatever you're going through, I'm sure you'll make it out okay. Also, your poem, Let's Be Teenagers, is lovely. I just thought I had to say it. Thanks for sharing that, Casper! I wish you all the best!
ReplyDeleteChristine Bradley @ West Green & Associates